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Conflict between Mother and Wife

by Guest6899 | 12 years, 9 month(s) ago

Hi. I have been married for the last 2 yrs. My wife,new-born daughter have been living together all these years. My wife has always been a temper person..meaning she would end up fighting with my mother over matters that I dont see as important at all. My mother had tried her best to always forget what happened and get back to normalcy with her the next day or 2 after. I can say that both get pretty jolly at times and it makes me feel very good. However, there are times when my moter or wife bring up issues which tend to go pair shaped and ends up in a quarrel..sometimes big ones.
i am stressed out with all these quarells and have talked with my wife and mother several times but it seems like banging my head on the wall!
Please advise what I should do to bring back normalcy in my home? I work hard and at the end of the day when I reach home (after long travel as well)..i'd like to relax a bit..but with all this stress between my wife and mother, its just not possible.

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Brett

Seeing your wife is a temper person and cannot act logically at times.. i would suggest that its better if you ask your mom to keep her distance from her, trying to make them see sense will be impossible. its better if they stop interfering with each others personal matter as much as they can. if you stop them both from interacting with each other after few weeks you would realize that both of them will try to get close to each other out of boredom as they have one another only after you leave the house.let them realize how much support they get from each other, arguing with them or making them change their ways wont help. its better if they stop any form of interaction and see what happens.
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