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I'm 13 and pregnant.

by Guest7200  |  12 years, 9 month(s) ago

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Well,I as for my last post I told all of you that i thought i might be pregnant,well i took 4 dif. pregnancy test and they all came up positve i also went to a clinic near my house and well they said im definetly pregnant idk what to do how do I tell my parents.?I really want to keep the baby,but I have a life to live and friends to be with and if i don't get an abortion I go to a school where they don't tolerate pregnant girls so I would get kicked out do you guys have anyway that I can tell my parents without them getting too upset.

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  1. Guest5446

    There is nothing specific that you can say that will make your parents less upset. IF you are afraid they will be.... PLEASE remember this. IF your parents are upset...the anger will go away. You are only 13. Please don't do anything irrational. It's NOT the end of the world or your life. There are options:  1) If your parents are understanding...you can have the child, live at home with your parents and continue going to a school that WON'T kick you out for being pregnant. I know many girls in high school who did this. They finished school, went on to college or work and still had their child and relationship with parents.  2) You can give a child up for adoption OR go to newbornlifeline.org/ ...they provide assistance to young girls. They help girls who don't want their babies and don't want an abortion. They want to stop mothers who abandon or kill their newborns out of fear. They can most likely help directly or guide you to someone who can. They desperately want to help young girls who are scared.  3) An abortion. At 13, you may need a parent to come with you.     Remember you are only 13....your parents may be mad in the short-run, BUT  will probably see the big picture and help you. Don't do anything foolish or reckless to your self or baby. It's not the end of the world...there are options.  Take care

  2. Guest5710
    You are only 13 your parents will only be mad at you for a short time, But after that you'll see what's right for the baby. Remember don't do anything to hurt u or the baby it might feel like the end of the world but it's not.
  3. Guest9407
    I got pregnat when i was only 13 aswell. I got an abortion. I felt really bad when i gave the baby up, but i knew it was for the best because i'm sure the baby would not want to grow with a 13 year old mother. If you know who the father (of the baby) is sit your parents down with him and talk then trough your problem. Your their daughter and they can't just abandon you. When I was ready to have a family I had a proper one which i feel great about because i feel i can love them and look after them and work. So I suggest you get an abortion. If you don't you may feel like you've ruined your life but you haven't other parents will most defently agree with this a baby is a start of a new part of your life and always put your baby first
  4. Guest7492
    you know my mom told mi plenty of times that i shouldnt have s*x and yes im 13 but i always think about doing it and i talk about to my boy friend and my mom said if i have s*x and get pregnant she is gone kick mi out. i believe her cause i know how she is but my mom sis had got pregnant at 15 and their mother didnt kick them out. so i really dont know if she is or isnt and i would tell them right away or yall go to the doctor together and say you dont feel well and have them check you out and they say you are pregnant your mom probly woudnt kick u out or get upset if you just b like how could i be pregnant mommy im scared. then she would help you out but i havent dun that but i think it will work.

    hope it does
  5. Guest6293
    you should find someone (that you know) and talk to them, one-on-one.  it really helps when makeing a decision.  Keep in mind that what you do not only directly affects you, but another life.  good luck!
  6. Guest7094
    what ever u do dont get an abortion it could kill u to. so what i would do is talk to my mom and see what she says. or call ur doctor and talk to him or her or give the baby up 4 adoption or keep it do what u want no 1 else it ur baby no 1 elses. good luck:D             be careful
  7. Guest3608
    idk just have an aboirtion quick and verything will be ok wheres the father?
  8. Guest3440
    U could tell them through a card that says congrats and then put from you and the  babys dad and the put and the new baby I'm 13. And was pregnant it's hard sometimes but I just had my baby a weekago and I am excited to show her off. hope the advice works
  9. Guest9856
    Listen right im 13 and i want te have a baby that might sound weird and all but i want to live my life to the fullest aswel so i saw just tell yur mam and dad yeah if your a daddys girl hes gonna go mad nd want te kill the father of the baby but you wot get kicked ou like no mam or dad would kick there pregnant daughter out! Tell the babys dad that yur pregnant nd yu want him around cause every mother would want there babys dad around, then tell yur mam nd dad and start saving yu can still ive yur life to the fullest yur baby is just going to make it better :) xxxx
  10. Guest7805
    my best friend might be pregnant she is 13 to. I really really want a baby 2 and I'm only 12, but PLEASE PLEASE dont get an abortion it will KILL the baby =[
  11. Guest4245
    I am now 14, and my daughter Emberlynn is now 1. I was thirteen when i got pregnant. Yes, i got kicked out of school, but there are places across the nation that tolerate pregnant ladies like yourself. Sweetie, i know this must be hard but no matter what you must tell your mom. She will be upset but she will be happy at the same time. She may want to be a granny but you are growing up to fast. Its hard. I had an emergency labor session and well, it hurt but my precious daughter is worth it. Tell your parents you wanna keep ur baby, hopefully they will understand. Good luck.

    Ember
  12. Guest6984
    I'm 12 and if i were you i would absoulutely not get an abortion. as for telling your parents, i would just go up to them and tell them that u kno they will be very mad and disappointed but isf they loved you they would undertand and  help you and respect your wishes. getting an abortion is TORTURE to unborn children you have something precious in you thats relying on you for protection you should definetly tell your parents they r here to help you and steer you in the right direction but they should also listen to what you want and your needs now is the one time in your life where YOU have to be responsible this will probably be a scary thing to do especialy at your age but you have to be strong for yourself and the baby. no abortions tho plzzz. adoption is possible but remember ppl would give anything for what God gave you rely on him and trust in God.
  13. Guest9431
    Well... Im not pregnant. But dnt get an abortion. Its going to kill the baby!! Think of this... U get the abortion and u keep thinking wat if ur baby was talking to u saying my mommy killed me. How would u feel? im not saying its from the grave or something but wat do u think if the baby says that?
  14. Guest9704
    You can get a abortion. Don't ruin your life with a baby. Abortion is the mohers choice. You can't tell a women to carry a child if she chooses not to. You do not have to but it is an option. Tell your parents and stay calm. If you need protection for physical safety because you are afraid of physical harm tell the clinic of your situation. They will have people to talk to.
  15. Guest7083

     im in the same position as you cant think straight any advice pleaseee

  16. Guest5901

     im in the same position and you cant think straight any advice pleaseee

  17. Guest6885

    My husband and I are looking to adopt. You can email me. mississippicrazywoman@yahoo.com. We already have 3 girls ages 9,11,12. We both have stable jobs. We are also foster parents as well. I  would love my daughter no matter what. I hope you have already discussed this with your parents.

  18. Guest2243

     Please, do NOT get an abortion. Many people think when your pregnant, your baby isn't a real person, but your baby IS a real person. And, I'm pretty sure your parents won't kick your out for getting pregnant. I'm 14 and I had a baby last year when I was 13. She's a girl and she means the world to me. And about your parents, If you know who the father of your baby is, ask him to come over and you and him both talk to your parents and do your best to do it calmly. And, if your mom is anything like mine, She'll help you as much as she can. And giving birth: It's a LOT of work, but totally worth it. And if you decide not to keep your baby ( :( I wish you would)  put him/her up for adoption. Whatever you do,  don't kill your baby.


    Take care and have fun!

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