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Im 17 yrs old and attracted to a man in his 30's

by Guest4763 | 12 years, 8 month(s) ago

I am 17 years old working for a large Corp. I believe my manager is in his 30’s. Ever since I was introduced to him, he’ve been very kind and respectful. A few days ago, he told me that there is something really special about me and he doesn’t know me that well but he feels connected to me. Ever since, I’ve been feeling very different in a good way. I find him very respectful and attractive. Feel free to express your opinions.

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amomipais82

Hi There,
It is a crush...am sure most girls her have had them on older men...you will get over it and do NOT act on your feelings...

Best of luck
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Guest5459

Thank you All
Report (0) (0) | 12 years, 8 month(s) ago
Guest1936

We have many emotions in our bodies. Understand that you may be feeling excepted, liked, appreciated, well connected. As a young adult we may not feel those emotions everyday. However ease into the emotions your feeling. Give it a few days and see how you feel. It could also take up to 2 weeks before it will subside. Then you will see a change in feelings.. Only then would it be best to respond.

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Report (0) (0) | 12 years, 8 month(s) ago
Guest1196

Not abnormal. Some call it "father figure" syndrome. You have a respect for this person because he is more mature in his emotions and decision making. He is also probably more responsible and can handle responsibilities better than boys your own age. Your feelings mean that you are now ready for a more serious relationship than what you can expect from boys your age. These feelings can also make you do something you may not really want to do at your age: get married or have babies. At 17, you are too young for those things and may regret acting on those feelings in about 10 years. Stay strong in resisting those certain feelings of getting seriously involved with anybody, whether they be 30 or your age. These feelings should quickly pass. You are only young once so live it up, explore the world, meet as many people as you can and, eventually, you will know when to get serious with a guy. Good luck!
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