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I am 22 year old mother of 3. I am currently 7 weeks pregnant. I am married. We have 2 girls and 1 boy, the girls are 4 and 2 and our son is 6. we have placed for adoption one time before. Unfortunately we find ourselves in the same situation again and due to beliefs our only options are parenting and adoption. We have 3 children already and have been struggling since day one. So parenting is just such a hard option and would make our current children's lives hopeless, so we feel that finding a deserving family who would love this child and ensure their future is the best thing for us to do. we don't speak to any of our family, my husband and I only have eachother. we would love to keep this adoption to ourselves. An update with pictures at least on major holidays is really the only form of an open adoption that we are looking for. We understand that this would be your child that you would want to raise your way in your private home, we would just like reassurance that we made the right decision. Our current living situation is a little unstable. We live in Utah. i work full time and my husband does seasonal work, ie christmas tree selling, windshield repair. We currently are staying in a one bedroom that the previous adoption agency placed me in and I have been unable to leave because I can't save up the money for a deposit and I can't pass a credit check due to student loans that I can't pay. So i pay $301 a week for a one bedroom and its very frustrating. For what I pay here I know i could afford a three bedroom apartment with room for all of us, yet there is nothing i can do. We are looking for a couple who has been together for at least 5 years and are both accomplished. We are also looking for a couple who are not opposed to a few phone conversations to get to know eachother as well as a face to face meeting if everything goes well before the birth. We would like to do the birth in your state, if possible but are not opposed to doing it here. If our situation sounds like something you can understand email me any questions you may have and i will get back to you.
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Hi - it sounds like a lot to handle for a young couple. I can only imagine what you are going through. We are a couple who have been together going on 9 years. We are hoping that we can have an open adoption and would want to send pictures back and forth. We are working with an adoption agency here in NY called Forever Families Through Adoption. You could call them toll free at 866-922-3678. We are Cory and Keith. You can also visit our website so that you can get a better idea of the kind of life we could offer your child at http://www.foreverfamiliesthroughadoption.org/downloads/BPL_coryKeith.pdf or you could go to www.adopting.com we are under the parent profiles and I think now we are the 2 at the top of the page. It will say Cory and Keith. Even if you dont feel like we are not a match there are lots of other couples on there as well as with our adoption agency that could give a wonderful home and life to your baby. We are both Our prayers are with you while you make this decision. Sincerely Cory and Keith
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Hello,
My wife and I read your post about your pregnancy and current situation. First, we admire you for being strong enough to make this decision.
That being said, we are very interested in adopting a new baby. My wife and I have been together for 10 years and we have 2 children currently. I am a restaurant manager and my wife is a stay at home mom. Unfortunately, due to 2 complicated pregnancies, my wife and I have decided not to conceive any more children, but to look to adoption as a means to have more children. Our home is fully adequate for 3 children and we look forward to adding to our family. We look forward to having phoen conversations with you and getting to know you as the process moves forward.
Please contact us at your earliest convenience so that we could discuss more.
Matthew and Tiara
Matthew - matthewtoomey@ymail.com
Hello, I am so sorry for what you and your husband must be going through, It can't be easy. I am a 35 years old from Wyoming, I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years, and we are wanting to start a family, I was born to be a mother and I am unable to conceive on my own, we are financaly stable and would love to help, Please contact me! We will be traveling throu UT at the end of the month, and could maybe meet you then. Thank you Carrie cowboysgc@hotmail.com
Hello, My name is Tina. I am a 34 year old caucasian female. I seen your posting about looking for a loving family to adopt your little angel. My fiance, Mario, 31 year old hispanic male, and I are very interested in adopting a baby. I have 5 children from a previous marriage. Mario and I have been together for little over 4 years, and have tried for the past two years to have a baby through invitro. He has never had children, and we would very much love to have a child together. I am interested in talking with you. I was adopted as an infant myself, and I know how important it is to know where you came from. We are open to the idea of an open adoption. If you are interested or still looking and considering please email me so we can get in touch. I am actually from northern Utah and currently live in Nevada, so it would be easy to meet if you decided to. I can't imagine having to make a decision like this, but being adopted myself, I can say your showing so much love by doing so. Email babydoll_loveya@yahoo.com
God Bless You
We are a loving, active and happy married couple with two beautiful kitties who live in Southeastern Michigan. We are home study approved waiting to adopt a newborn to love and cherish for the rest of our lives. We do not have any children, and are praying that our dream of being parents becomes a reality.
We live near greatest schools, parks and libraries. We love to be outdoors, camping in our travel trailer, walking the beaches and swimming in lakes, spending happy times with our families and making memories at home. We look forward to sharing all of these wonderful things with a child.
Please visit our website www.MostLovingFamily.com, where you will learn more about us, read our birth mother letter and see our slideshow. Our parent profile is also at http://www.parentprofiles.com/profiles/db26802.html
We hope to hear from you and wish you peace in your heart and mind as you make your decision.
Ann and Eric
It is indeed very wise of you to think that way. Due to the global inflation it is getting too tough for most of the people to take good care of their children.
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