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This relationship is over

by Guest1367 | 12 years, 8 month(s) ago

This relationship is over, From Dating 101: Six Ways to Make It Easier for You to Dump Someone, let them go, get it over with.

Every time you break up with your partner does he freak out. "Not a good situation?" Isn't that kind of obvious? How can anyone expect a breakup to be a good situation at all?
Breaking up is a selfish act that can be a necessary evil in your dating life. But there are easier ways to do the whole process.

The first step is to adjust your mentality and recognize the situation:

If you don't break up quickly and honestly, it's unfair to you and the other person.
If you are even thinking about breaking up with someone, it's probably time to do it. Would you want to be with someone who was having second thoughts while you were madly in love with them?

It's going to be ugly and there's nothing anyone can do about it. But there are a number of tactics that can help make it easier for both parties (even though both parties may not recognize it at the time). Read below some some good tactics to use for a "clean" break:

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Guest7795

Breaking up advice continued from top

1. Make It really Fast
The longer you take to get to the point (whether it's hours or days), the less they will take you seriously.

2. Be Honest
Don't sugarcoat the situation. If you're seeing someone else, tell them you're seeing someone else.

3. Don't Feel Sorry for Anyone
People will beg, cry, get angry, or shower you with guilt. Just keep going, try to ward off your guilt and go through with it.

4. Set Post-Breakup Rules
you won't be answering their calls or emails. You won't be accommodating them if they show up at your apartment.

5. Stick With It - The more you take them back, the less seriously they'll take your breakup attempts.

6. Neutral Site - Never do it at your place.
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Guest9870

I know when you are about to breakup one last quickie is the call of action some times but make sure to stay away from it. Break up and walk away don't say after this last steamy action we are done. Its not worth it.
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