I would love some help with this one. I was straight, or so I thought for many years. Fell in love with a woman, who was actually still living with another woman, though they were no longer intimate for at least a year. The very first day we ever had a conversation she told me she needed to leave and should have left a long time ago. The problem was it wasn't her choice to end the intimacy, this girl was the love of her life but unfortunately those feelings were not the same for her partner. She did leave, shortly after. We continued our relationship, and live together now. It has been eight months. She is still grieving over ex, and her ex is constantly playing the "poor me" card, and won't be anywhere I am, and wants to continue to see my girlfriend on her own, alone even though I had nothing to do with their breakup. She continually blames it on me and takes absolutely no blame, though she admitted she wasn't in love with her over a year ago, and as I mentioned, they were not intimate. Problem is my girlfriend misses her and does want to see her too. I'm having a really hard time dealing with it. Should I really be okay with her going out alone, talking or texting almost everyday????? I know lots of her other ex's and I don't have a problem with them. They don't put conditions on there friendships, like you come over but your girlfriend can't, and even more ridiculous conditions I won't even bother with. I'm angry with the ex for making me the bad guy (girl), and more hurt that my current girlfriend still wants her ex in her life, and will take it whatever way she can get it. Help!!!!! I'm new at this so I'm not sure if I'm just being totally unreasonable.
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