It the behavor and attitude in what people do. See boys do not have a problem in a family bring in her daughter who is 9 in a wheelchair or a girls who just need to be with her father and not to be a long in the women locker room.
When a mom just think she can do as she pleases and think because she a women and a mother to a son that she can walk into other people space at free well is 100% wrong. Women do not belong in the boys locker room. Parent of other boys do not what other women to look a pond their son naked bodies. Yes women do think sexually about young boys. Mostly preeteen boys and young teenagers boys.
When a father as the father with a 9 year old girls being in there. The boys understand the father is doing it for safety reason. The boys do not feel their space disrepect. Yes it a fact that the 9 year old girls is looking around and yes she notices the boys gentiles on their bodies. Yes she see the differ size, shape, developing level. She see their testicles hanging low, or their p***s having erection. That is ok with them. They see her brest area developing, your lips, and vaginal. When a father, brother, or male friend who bring in a female into the locker room do not feel their space is in violation.
When a mom of a boy who just think see can do as she pleases with her son in other people areas is a violation. Just like a mom who goes to check on her child in the tub but her friend walks in with here into the bathroom is also in violation of the women child.
I work with girls and I tell them the only females who post to see the boy of the family in the nude is mom and dauther. the same goes with girls. The father and brother can see her naked. There is a attitude in the America culture that women can do what ever they think they can do.
My son is 11 and his sister is 9. My dauther has girls over to spend the night and they know they do not have the same rights as my daughter has with her brother. They aslo know if they cross the line they never be able to come back over. One of the girl is 10 and she has no brother. She come over just her and my daughter. She been very curious about boys bodies. She knows becasue my daughter has told her that her brother has been a big help in helping her to learn about boys. The girls knows my daughter see him naked which mean she see his gentiles. The girls parents have been very support of my children. I told my son if you feel ok with her and it you who does it we do not make you do it. The girls have told my daughter she which she could a naked boy. I talk to her and told her it normal and it nomral for a boy to see a girl. It how we go about it that it is right and wrong. You have to build a strong level of trust and repect. I tild her that we female here in the house can no do as we pleases. Boys have the same right to self space.
She ask my son if you could be willing to help me in learning about boys. Think about it as let her sister know. In the mean time. We talk about this as a family. Well the next day my son told his sister it was ok. I told her not to tell her that you invited her to spend the night on Friday. We will surpise her. I talk to her mom and let her know that you daughter show a strong interest in see a boy naked. She told me yes and she told me my dauther as her son if he be willing help. So I told her to let her spend the night on Friday. She does not know my children are nudists and walk around in the house naked. So they be naked when she arrives. I will add more to this story
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