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We had a arguement. Im trying to make him understand but he wont make anything easy for me. I feel stressed. I dont know how and what to recite to make him feel for me again. Now he is cold hearted so i find it really difficult to make him understand.
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Hi there,
I am sorry that you are going through this ordeal. I will try to help you as much as I can and thank you for the details provided. First things first, arguments can do harm and last long, but the goal should be to resolve them and leave them in the past.
The best way to do this now that the argument has happened is to put yourself in his shoes. What is making him so upset to the point of not wanting to reason with you or hear you out? You know him well and need to see through his eyes to get that insight. Next, make sure that you apologize for anything you regret doing or saying. Only do so if it is genuine, otherwise it will be a waste for both of you.
You can only control yourself and what comes with that. You cannot control his reaction, feelings, anger or words. Honestly, if you have apologized and tried to fix things and nothing has come of it you may need to cut your losses. Love is about understanding and compromising. If he loves you he will do those things because you have done what you can to earn it. If not, there is a good chance he just isn't right for you and this was a blessing in disguise. Forgiveness comes from a person if they choose, not you. If you are ok with it all that is what counts if you have done your all.
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