Is this considered cheating? Crossing this line makes you unfaithful, love experts say but what

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1. Guest7483
   

   Cheaters will find this interesting; You never intended to have an affair. But let's say your husband travels often for work, leaving you home alone. So one evening, while online, you see an advertisement for find old friends,  click on it and type in your alma mater. A list of people who you haven't thought of in years pops up. And then you see the name of your college crush, the boy who would smile at you in English class and torment your undergraduate heart. Fifteen years later, you wonder how zeeshan has aged. Your heart beats quickly as you type, "Remember me? Just came across your name and thought I would say hello."
   The next evening, you check your e-mail. "Good to hear from you!" the subject line blares. It's zeeshan, and of course he remembers you. You e-mail back and the exchange continues for months, only you never mention it to your husband. zeeshan is also unhappily married and you begin to commiserate. Is this cheating?
   

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2. Guest6251
   

   The answer, according to M. Happy Singh, an Indian based psychotherapist and the author of Emotional Singh is King, is yes. "Anytime you're hiding a relationship from your partner with a member of the opposite s*x, you're being unfaithful," he explains. "And if you're sharing your deepest thoughts or secrets with this third person that you're not sharing with your spouse, that's emotional infidelity."  

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