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Too often I hear speeches related to the fear of loneliness. Ni no doubt that is an existential fear: that is, all of us are separated from others in the strict sense, and this separation leads us to feel the need to share our inner world with others. When we communicate, we overcome the fear of solitude Loneliness has nothing to do with living in compañÃ_ao with being in the company. There are families of highly organized desolate people. There are couples who are very far from each other even though they live together. The desolate feeling has to do with not being open to love. Modern society, which is consumer par excellence, has developed strategies to evade the feeling of isolation that invade may sadden, worry and make us feel overwhelmed. So we invade and try to convince us that if we weigh many kilograms, or conduct certain car, or use some cream on our face, we will be loved and we no longer feel alone. It is one of the biggest lies in the world. The answer is not in the consumer Nor is success. Make a mad dash for having money or possessions that make us feel less alone is not the way. It may even be counterproductive. Investing in the superfluous does not help. Indeed the existential void often arise of living "out", ie, trying to reach the Demasa appreciation through our professional or economic achievements. This does not mean that it is a priority to obtain the necessary financial resources to attain a decent standard of living, or do not seek to be better in our work every day: it is essential to distinguish my motivations, and a clear awareness of what my actions: that is the meaning of each of my actions. Opening to Love is a choice Overcome existential isolation is possible only through open and thorough communication with the other. And we know that is overcome by moments and then returned to be alone with ourselves, not desolate: it is to be without us. Have you yourself means being at peace with your conscience. Acting in such a way that you feel an inner pride of having done the right thing. For this we need time alone to analyze our actions and decide how we want to be and live. Being your friend first, take care of you, know your needs and take responsibility for yourself is a priority. But, at the same time, open up to love. How? 1
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