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WHY Beautiful women fall for Jerks??

by Guest8722 | 12 years, 8 month(s) ago

So, how should I approach her??? I met her about 2 months ago. Shes architect, from brazilian's branch office, but now shes here (nyc office), because although shes very young, she already has an architectural doctorate degree (Arch D). whose field is uncommon and important for our new project. So, she's designing this. And she supposed to stay here during the construction, but she did not accept. Kate (our colleague) told me she wants to return to brazil as soon as possible, coz she misses her friend and family, especially the nephews...also her culture and hear portuguese).
Well, anyway, heres what really matters: Shes not just intelligent, shes also gorgeous, really is, extremely beautiful and hotttt... but her attribute that I most like is that shes very decent...I noticed that coz almost all singles men from office asked her out, and she didnt accept none.
I was so curious about her, that I called Ricardo, a friend from brazilian's branch office, and he said shes divorced with no kids; She got married at 17, with her 1st BF, who is 15 years older, and is court judge. She DIVORCED him last year, at age 27! (now shes 28)! Her marriage ended coz of HIS JEALOUSY+ HE HIT HER+ she had an ABORTION coz of this! (I was shocked when I found).
Ricardo (yeah, he told me a lot) also said shes always receiving flowers, but never accept a date. Shes single since she got divorced last year! So, that's her. Will she bring me trouble?? I disagree...
Well, now that I know that she says NO to everyone, and besides shes so quiet and closed that never comes to our happy hour, how can I approach her? I want a serious relationship...If I could prove that Im not like that brazilian she divorced! I never felt this before, and Im not exaggerating!!

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amomipais82

Hi,
get a lot of emails from guys who read my newsletter that say things like... "I'm sure what you're saying is right, but I don't want to be a jerk or an a**hole to women..."
"I have seen what you're talking about happen all my life, but I'm a 'nice guy' and I want women to like me for me..."
...and...
"This doesn't make sense..."

I'd like to address these ideas.

Up until about 5 years ago, I was THE nice guy of nice guys. As a matter of fact, when I first made the decision to learn how to be successful with women, this actually created an obstacle for me.
Let me explain...

Because I believed that "being a nice guy" MUST be the way to success with women, I ACTUALLY COULDN'T EVEN PERCEIVE ANY OTHER WAY.

In other words, I could see a situation where a woman was attracted to a mean, abusive guy and think to myself that either she must be screwed up in the head, or THAT THE GUY MUST BE REALLY NICE TO HER THE REST OF THE TIME.

As you probably know, it's hard to convince a person to believe something when they already have a belief about the topic. The person that you're trying to convince just uses whatever you say to convince themselves that they're actually right... and you're wrong.
Well, I did the exact same thing.

No matter how much evidence I found to the contrary, I still somehow believed that being a "nice" guy, buying women flowers and gifts, taking them out, and generally letting them be in control of the relationship HAD to be the way to attract them.

Well, after continuing along the same path and getting the same results, I realized something that literally changed EVERYTHING for me. I realized that JERKS do, in fact, attract hot women. Selfish behavior, as unhealthy as this might sound, often makes women feel attracted to you. Sarcasm, ball busting, playing hard to get, and all kinds of other "illogical" things really do work when it comes to attracting women.

But then I had a dilemma...
I love the idea of being successful with women, but I HATE the idea of mistreating people, being mean to them, lying and misleading, etc. Deep down, I want to be a good guy. I decided that there MUST be a way to make this work, and to attract women without being ABUSIVE.

The good news is that THERE IS a way.

But it requires that you put aside your current ideas for just long enough to entertain some new ones.

First, let me say that I believe I've found a way to take the things that JERKS do to attract women and use them WITHOUT THE ABUSE. When you learn to do this, you can really have the best of both worlds... you can be nice to women on your own terms, and give them what they REALLY want, and what REALLY attracts them.
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