Well, personally to me, I am a biracial Hispanic (or Latina) from the Latin Caribbean, which is pretty much synonymous with being mixed race, since most people from the Caribbean are mixed.
I find that for me, your thought process of biracial men with white mothers are usually attracted to white women, because of their own mothers being white. That seems to make sense. That principle can also apply to women of mixed race, as I married and conceived a child with a white man myself, since apparently, my father is white (Latin), and maybe on a subconscience level, I selected a white (but American white--a redneck!) partner. I never really gave it much thought, but since you are engaging in this discussion, it has made me consider this fact.
And I was 'daddy's little girl' or 'princess' too. He took me everywhere with him and bought me things when I was a child, so I was spoiled by my father, to a certain degree. So there must be a connection to having some affection towards non-black men. Plus, growing up, I witnessed other family members, like my aunts who were abused by their black husbands/boyfriends, including my own mother who was beat by her American black boyfriend (just like one of my aunts).
That probably developed my distain for black men over the years. That could be why I'm not attracted to them. But let me say that my white husband is no longer my husband anymore (for over 15 years now) and I feel that he may have been a phase or something! :) (after a 11.5 years of marriage!) ...Before him, I never dated a white guy, nor was I attracted to one before him or after!
...I am mostly attracted to Latin men, primarily because of the culture, since that is how I was raised and that is what I feel most comfortable with. Before I met my ex-husband, that was all I dated and after I divorced, that has been the only type of man that I am still attracted to as well.
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