Going to school with a girl that you are trying to pick up provides some very valuable pros to your chances such as a lot of time to work your magic and chances to make an impact with your social influence. It also has some potential pitfalls that you should be mindful of such as a lot of hearsay floating around and competition for your lady. I have dated popular and attractive girls at school and hope that the advice I can offer you will of assistance.
1. Be Confident and Slightly Cocky, not Conceited and Arrogant
Women, particularly those in highschool and post-secondary love a young man/boy that exudes confidence. Self-confidence is an invaluable life skill. Those who exude their belief in themselves control their fate and people see that. However, being self-absorbed, conceited and praising yourself to the heavens will not do your game any good unless you are talking about Hailo 4 online game play. Treat people well...treat yourself as well as you can.
2. Make a mark...be Memorable
Highschool and increasingly middle school are places where a social order exists based around popularity, both real and perceived. Never forget that you are in school to get an education, discover your calling and give your best. Do not forgo anything important to you academically in order to try to do something over the top to impress a girl. Rather, be a funny and highly involved person with a solid profile. Chess club and badminton may not win you the prom queen, but other athletic and social things like year book, school politics or debate club give you a profile and an impact. People notice.
3. Make friends with all kinds of people and be sincere about it
Making friends with a wide range of people not only exposes you to their backgrounds and teaches you, it also is a great way to be known and widely respected. Treating people genuinely and the same behind their back as in front will win people into your corner. This could lead to someone falling for you, or someone being there to put in a good word with someone new or from a particular crew.
4. Take care of yourself and dress the part
As bad as it is to say, we are more likely to approach or be attracted to someone who is well put together and takes care of themselves physically. Although this isn't always the case, looking as good as you can is never going to hurt your chances. Also, don't show up to school in a full suit by taking this advice to the extreme, you will just make people wonder about the child executive.
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