my bf just broke up with me and i feel like cometing suiside

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1. Guest7021
   

   Keep strong, I know it's not easy at the moment, I've been there myself. You feel empty, lonely, they're constantly on your mind, you wonder if they'd ever want you back, or what you could have done to avoid all this. It hurts, no point denying that.
   
   But the thing is, you need to give yourself time to heal, take some time, have a cry, get your mates over, spend some time with them! Get someone you trust and just let it all out, talk to them, get everything you feel out in the open, trust me it helps. Ultimately what you have to do is keep your mind off things, try to be as busy as you possibly can. Sitting around will only cause more problems, I did that when my ex-gf dumped me, and sitting around caused more problems than it solved.
   
   Hold off contact for a while, I know it's gonna be hard, but it allows you to heal, if you contact him all the time it wont help at all. Just get out and keep busy, spend lots of time with friends and dont dwell, it will get better, I can promise you that!
   
   As for the suicide, it's not the answer. At the end of the day, you have a whole life to live, we've all been where you are, but trust me, ending your life is not the answer, it would only result in more pain.  At the moment, your emotions are all over the place with the suddenness of the breakup, but as time passes, it will get easier, things will become clearer. Hang on for now, let your friends and family support you through this, you will become a much stronger person for it.
   
   Best of Luck =]

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