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do i forgive my husband?

by Guest7707 | 12 years, 9 month(s) ago

my husband is the the military in 08 i was expecting our first daughter in the june. before i had our baby, he had to go to a different state to reclass. he was there for a lil over 2 months. after he came back home i had my daughter & he was deployed right after for 1 year. in 09 he came back state side & we got stationed at another base. we have been here for a little over a year & we have another daughter. a week before i had my daughter i started getting emails from a girl on a social network telling me that my husband had cheated on me while he was in another state when i was pregnant in 08 & had a daughter with her. she swears its the truth. i confronted my husband about this he denies everything. even knowing who they are. (they obviously know him, from the details they gave me in the emails). so i confronted the female in question about the affair & she denied it as well. but she had sent him an email right after i had asked her about this & it said why was a i asking her if she slept with him in AIT.
so this other female keeps emailing me telling me all this stuff, they are both stationed here at the same base as we are. my husband still denies everything that this girl has said. but i keep getting emails say well now the whole company knows about them & all this other stuff.
i just dont know what to do, i dont know if i believe my husband i want to but his track record isnt all that clean. & i can never tell if hes lieing. ive asked him numerous times to just come clean if any of this is clean & he keeps telling me its not. any advice?

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Guest64

yes you should forgive your husband.....:)
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Guest4667

In my mind & experience, you have no choice but to forgive him. That being said, your husband need's to confront these women who are emailing you & In front of you, so you hear, he needs to tell them to stop.
  Otherwise, pray to G-d that He will reveal the truth to you.
  In any case, start setting up a plan for yourself & your daughter via saving money, find a attorney, get to know your rights & the divorce law, get therapy, go to your pastor, add to your education, start putting together your resume & get a job, pay off your bills, then keep it to yourself.
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