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ok. to start of, i am a bisexual. i just got brokenhearted when my ex gf broke up with me last week.

by Guest3712 | 12 years, 7 month(s) ago

she broke up with me after 3 1/2 years of living together. her reason was that she doesn't have any accomplishments and that i am a college grad and soon my family will be here. she said she's nothing. i asked her why is it my fault for her downfall when in fact i am here to support her. honestly, i didn't see it coming. all of a sudden, out of the blue she broke up with me thru text because she doesn't want to see me hurt and in pain. when i talked to her the past days, she told me to wait for her.. for how long i don't know. well, she is in the closet and i am the one who told her mom and best friend about her that she's a L*****n. i told her that they will still accept you for who you are because they love you. and i was right, her mom is still there, well coz we were living at her moms before so she stayed and i moved out. then her best friend accepted her for who she is. i just don't get iit why she broke up with me after those years of being together.

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Guest4894

I want you to know that you are not to blame.  She is still in the closet, no doubt experiencing depression with that as well as her own education and career difficulties.
I want you to know that sometimes L*****n or bi women leave their girlfriends because low self-esteem and internalized homophobia/biphobia gets in the way.
I had a bi woman friend who was enjoying a wonderful and fun relationship with a L*****n woman.  When the L*****n woman's brother died unexpectedly, she broke up with my bi woman friend.  She said that she was the only child left in her family now and that her parents (who she was not out to) would be expecting grandchildren.  She told my friend that she had to "stop fooling around with this L*****n stuff" and get serious and marry a man so she could bear the grandchildren.
She left my bi woman friend, who couldn't persuade her to do otherwise.  I don't know all the details of it, but I do know that my bi woman friend healed, went on with her life, and now she lives in England with a L*****n partner.  So it all worked out for her in the end.  I also know that I saw her L*****n lover over a year later when I was bartending at this new L*****n sports bar.  She came in and didn't recognize me at first.  When she came over to talk to me, I didn't recognize her at first, either.  I only realized later that she was my bi friend's ex-girlfriend.  She was back in the LGBT community dating again.
Yours,
Max the Communist
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