Relationship issue. If a man does not want to commit what should you do?

4 ANSWERS

1. Guest1378
   

   how long are you in a relationship for?

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2. Guest186
   

   It doesn’t matter why your man does not want to commit.  Let me show you how ways to get him to commit within few months regardless of his reasons not to do so.
   
   Back off a bit, sometimes when you want something really bad you end up getting the worst deal possible.
   
   Let’s say you have found your dream man. You have been seeing him on the weekends for months, you have even met some of his friends and they are beginning to see you as a couple. Now you want to move the relationship to the next level. How do you do that?
   
   Learn the nature of the beast. Men are hunters and no hunter wants an animal that is standing still in front of him. Playing hard to get goes a long way with men, lots of these hunters don’t like an easy pick. Understanding this gives you an advantage to thinking as a man thinks.
   
   Studies have shown that when we back off the other person comes closer. It’s called the “rubber band” technique. When you begin to pull the rubber band in one direction the other part snaps back towards you.  
   
   1. Stop calling him and wait until you hear from him.  Instead of calling him answer some questions here on maybenow.com and lose yourself in the site. Take a walk. Enroll in a class. Walk around the mall and window shop. Make yourself your top priority is not him. What this will do is force him to wonder if you are losing interest in him. His hunting instincts will come out and he will want to find out what is going on differently with you.
   
   2. The next weekend instead of seeing him go and see your long lost best friend or dead cat. Talk to your mother or spend time with your siblings; anything but him.
   
   3. Treat yourself and take a trip to a day spa. Spend time getting yourself feminine and gorgeous and then, instead of running over to show him the new you, go out on the town with your girlfriends. In his mind he will wonder if you have someone new that you want to impress. Thinking that someone else might steal you from him will drive him crazy. Nothing motivates a man like competition does, real or imaginary.
   
   4. Keep him on the guess. In order to do that you will come back to your old routine for a week. Now you will call him, drop by, ECT. Once he gets used to all the attention from you again he will miss it even more when you go back to not doing these things the next week. In this case confusion is your friend as it adds to the mystery of “you” and keeps him guessing.
   
   5. Most men love their mothers. invite her out to lunch and have fun with her.  If he is not friends with his mother he may not be husband material. By finding out “who” she is you can find out a lot about the man. In any case by being kind and attentive to her she will want to see you in his life PERMANENTLY.
   
   More tips on who to get your man to love will come later……..

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3. Brett
   

   if he doesn't want to commit it means hes not that much into you.. or he  is still on a look out for something better... all the other reasons hes giving are stupid..

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4. Reinaldo Irizarry, S...
   

   Did you find any reason why he is doing this ? May be there is something wrong with you ?

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